- Phone: (316) 788-1507
- Mailing Address: 431 S. Woodlawn Blvd. Derby KS 67037
Stephen Ministers are the “After People.” They are there:
. . . after the phone call you hoped you’d never get.
. . . after the funeral, when everyone has left and the emotions you’ve held at bay come crashing in on you.
. . . after the relationship falls apart and the bottom falls out of your life.
. . . after the doctor says, “I’m sorry, but there’s nothing more we can do."
. . . after the nursing home director shakes your hand and says, “Welcome to your new home.”
. . . after the last child honks the horn, waves, and drives away—and the house suddenly seems empty.
. . . after the gavel comes down, the handcuffs go on, and your loved one is led away.
. . . after the baby arrives, demanding more of you than you ever dreamed possible.
. . . after you find a pink slip with your final paycheck.
. . . after your family and friends have heard your story one too many times, but you still need to talk it out.
--© 2016 by Stephen Ministries St. Louis. Used by permission
Stephen Ministers are ready to come alongside providing comfort and support for as long after as it’s needed. And our church is committed to providing that support for each one who seeks that.
But will we have enough Stephen Ministers to be able to supply each need?
At Woodlawn United Methodist Church, we believe that God is able to meet whatever need God’s children’s have. It just takes people willing to say, “Here I am, Lord; send me.”
If you supply the willingness to be God’s hands, we’ll supply the training.
Can you think of any reason God is not wanting you to be God’s “After Person?”
Sign up today by calling the church office at 316-778-1507.
Stephen Ministry has been in operation here at Woodlawn United Methodist Church since 2002. The ministry of the Stephen Ministers has been a blessing to individuals, to the lay ministers themselves, and to the whole congregation. In order to continue and expand this ministry of care, we are beginning another Stephen Ministry training class on Sept 16. Take advantage of this opportunity to share the love that God has given you. You will find that being a Stephen Minister not only will be helpful to others, but it will be one of the most fulfilling and joyful experiences that you have ever had.
To apply to this class, simply pick up an application form in the church office, prayerfully complete it and return it to the church office. Stephen Leaders will review all applications and schedule interviews with those candidates for the class. After the interviews, those selected will receive class schedules and all Stephen Ministry materials necessary will be ordered at no cost to the student.
Classes are held each Monday evening from 6–8:30pm. Attendance is expected, and makeup is required for any class missed. All lessons must be completed. Stephen Leaders are the class instructors. Time off during the Holiday Season is built into the class schedule. Training takes @ 20 weeks, with 50 hours of class time. Expectations are that each student will attend all class sessions and serve as a Stephen Minister for at least 2 years. Class size is limited to 12 students.
Those who have completed this valuable training have often said how much it has enriched their own lives. The skills learned can be applied to all situations, not just assigned care receivers. Everyone benefits from receiving this training. Please prayerfully consider your roll is this vital care giving ministry.
Front row L to R: Roylene Klein; Sharon Schmidt; Margaret Black; Barb Paulin; Jean Anderson; Margie Cords.
Back Row L to R: Eleanor Underwood; Vickie Waddell, Janet Ferguson, Jack Weins; Norma Rockenbach; Donna Overmiller; Bruck Clark; Sharyon Miller; Kelly Gifford; Carol Basinger & Patricia Cantwell.
Not pictured: Millie White, Vic Calcote, Kyle York.
STEPHEN MINISTER JOB DESCRIPTION
Stephen Ministers are congregation members who are recruited, selected, trained and commissioned to provide one to one lay caring ministry to people in crisis or with other needs for care. They participate in Supervision Group twice a month. They initially commit to serve for two years including training and many renew their commitment.
What Stephen Ministers Do: A defined cluster of activities make up a Stephen Minister’s job description.
PRAY: Stephen Ministers pray daily for their care receivers and strive to worship God always in word and deed. They reveal the love of God to those who most need to see it.
CARE FOR THE CARE RECEIVER: Stephen Ministers are assigned to care receivers—people in crisis who need caring support. Stephen Ministers care for those in moderate difficulties. The Stephen Minister’s care helps the care receiver resolve the difficulty and achieve growth. Most Stephen Ministers meet once a week with their care receivers for about an hour at a time. They may also check in with the care receiver by telephone, particularly when the care receiver is going through a difficult time. Stephen Ministers use special skills to care for their care receivers. Among the most important are the following:
Listening. Most care receivers need someone simply to listen—really listen—as they talk through their difficulties.
Dealing with feelings. Stephen Ministers reflect the care receiver’s content, feelings, and ideas and ask open-ended questions to help the care receiver recognize, express, and accept his or her feelings.
Sharing distinctively Christian caring resources. Stephen Ministers may share a prayer, a Bible verse or story, or other caring gestures that the care receiver would welcome.
Remaining process-oriented. Stephen Ministers do not try to fix the care receiver or his or her problems; they focus on the process or care giving and rely on God to achieve results.
Relating assertively. Stephen Ministers respect both the needs of the care receiver and their own needs as well.
Maintaining boundaries. Stephen Ministers set appropriate boundaries in the caring relationship, helping the care receiver remain as independent as possible while being there for the care receiver as needed.
Recommending professional care when necessary. Stephen Ministers are not trained to care for those who are suicidal, severely depressed, abusive, or homicidal, or who are abusing drugs or alcohol. If Stephen Ministers recognize that their care receiver’s needs exceed the care they are able to provide, they see that the care receiver receives professional care.
Maintain Confidentiality: Stephen Ministers understand that confidentiality is crucial in any caring relationship. The care receiver needs to know that what he or she says to the Stephen Minister will remain in confidence. Stephen Ministers maintain confidentiality and encourage other Stephen Ministers to do the same.
Help Identify People in Need of Stephen Ministry: Stephen Ministers act as ministers of referral, helping to find people who would benefit from the care of a Stephen Minister.
Participate in Twice-Monthly Supervision and Continuing Education Sessions: Stephen Ministers participate faithfully in Small Group Peer Supervision and continuing education, coming prepared to every supervision session unless illness or emergency make attendance impossible. Supervision provides Stephen Ministers with support, guidance, and accountability for their caring relationships. There are no unsupervised Stephen Ministers.
Help the Congregation Understand and Appreciate Stephen Ministry: Through their service, Stephen Ministers help the congregation appreciate Stephen Ministry and encourage members to become ministers of referral who help those in crisis receive the care they need.
How the Congregation Supports the Stephen Minister:
Training: Through its trained Stephen Leaders, the congregation supplies Stephen Ministers with 50 hours of training for this ministry before they are assigned a care receiver, and further supplies continuing education twice monthly for as long as the Stephen Ministers serve. The training is comprehensive, and Stephen Ministers can feel confident in their skills for this ministry.
Commissioning: The congregation formally commissions Stephen Ministers at one or more worship services. This allows the community to recognize their efforts, affirm and support their ministry, and pray for them as they begin their caring ministry.
Supervision: Small group Supervision provides Stephen Ministers with encouragement and ensures that no Stephen Minister will ever have to carry the responsibility for his or her care receiver all along.
Prayers: Stephen Ministers rely on the prayers of the congregation for keeping God’s presence foremost in their caring ministry. Sometimes the going will be tough for both caregivers and their care receivers; the Stephen Ministers will need the additional support of knowing that others are lifting their needs as caregivers to God in prayer.
Stephen Leaders: By accepting Stephen Ministry as part of it’s overall ministry, a congregation agrees to supply the resources that allow for the training of Stephen Leaders. These Stephen Leaders in turn provide guidance for Stephen Ministers. They train them and ensure that the supervision and continuing education sessions progress smoothly. They are available to consult with Stephen Ministers when they have questions, face challenges, or suspect that the care receiver’s needs exceed the care they are able to give. Stephen Leaders offer support, advice, and affirmation to the Stephen Ministers and ensure the smooth operation of Stephen Ministry in the congregation.
Recognition and Appreciation: The congregation recognizes and appreciates Stephen Ministers for the service they give the congregation.